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Porn didn't do this to men. We've always been perverts, all porn has done is give men a new impression of what is attainable from the opposite sex. It's difficult to hold out on things now, when a guy can point to other girls that do it all like it's no big deal and call you a prude.

Now women have to compete with porn, and it's breaking the power of their sexual bargaining chips. No wonder they are bitching about it.




I agree to the extent that it's certainly true that men have always been "perverts" ( if that's how you choose to categorize perfectly normal sexual behavior ). But I wouldn't say that porn doesn't play some role in introducing the viewer to novel ideas. Having come of age before the internet revolution, there were many sexual practices I hadn't even conceived of until seeing them in porn. I do think pornography helps to define and elucidate our sexual fantasies, and therefore can in fact promote rather than hinder a healthier sex life.


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There is another issue at hand here. A woman who fucks on the first date is a slut, for good or bad. A woman who fucks on first date and dodges cum may raise suspicion in a guy's mind. If she fucks on first date and swallows it becomes a question of dating this newfound slut or never calling the dirty pig again. Any future considerations to the possibility of anal are usually the deciding factors in such a situation.



By that standard one could either choose to characterise men as "sluts", or simply define a slut as a woman who chooses to have sex indiscriminately for pleasure... or more to the point, who chooses to have sex like a man.
Whether or not she makes that choice comes down to her own judgement of social costs vs benefits. However, "dirty pig" or not... it doesn't stop men from fucking her. So what does that say about us? Discuss.

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