That was a great read-and I mean the responses. It comes down to individual tastes and collegecallgirl said it best; kinky is anything I won't do.
As for where to finish a blow job. Got to agree with several of the above and say I want my load sucked out like she's winning a fucking prize. And what she does after pulling every last drop from the deepest coils of my balls, I don't care! Spitting, swallowing, gargling, whatever. It's always hot when a chick just gulps it down without a hitch, although I assume it's usually to keep from choking since she should not vary the depth, sucking power or pace until I've emptied every last swimmer on her tonsils. After I spew, it's all hers to deal with and really caring what happens to it is like wondering where my load goes after I dump in her pussy-I don't care at all.
As for porn being an influence on all this;
Sure, men with no imagination can now watch a freckle-faced, A-cup, 103lb whore drink the loads of 60 men for rent money while being DP-ed with fists and at the end thanking her daddy for her fine decision making skills. This kind of porn only provides a short cut to the less imaginative. I've been a twisted freak since I first knew what fucking was and it certainly was not the result of stealing my step-fathers early 1970's Playboys!

Porn does at some level raise the stakes for frequent viewers of what works to get them off. But it's the same with driving (55mph seemed scary at 15 y.o.), 4 beers was a good buzz when I was 13, earning $3.85 an hour seemed pretty good in high school and getting a nut from dry humping on the couch was pretty hot when I was 15. Same goes for porn, but I think it's more cyclic. I was fascinated by anal, then fisting, then really extreme fisting, then I fucked every girl I ever dated dated in the shitter and fisted two of them. And while anal is fun, it's really more fun as an idea since a well-tuned cunt can be a snugger fit. And, yeah, fisting is hot. Especially when the chick begs to be ass fucked while being fisted and I was able hold my cock through her vaginal wall and jack off. But in the end, a really hot girl who really loves (or in porn is able to communicate the idea that she really loves) whatever is happening at the time is what works. (although I guess sometimes watching a chick hate what she's doing in porn can be fun also-see the cum dodging antics of the Asian whore Kitty for a great example). But I mentioned the cyclic nature of this and I find that after jacking off to Ashley Blue hyper-ventilating and uncontrollably crying during a blow bang, seeing two super hot blond chicks get four hands to the wrist in some blown out 50 year old housewife, watching Hilary Scott shit four loads (including some of her own "caramel swirl") into Kat's braces filled mouth, I get burned out for a while and just want to turn it off and fuck a regular chick until I reset my kink meter and can again get off on something as simple as Padova, TMFR or some other random whole knelt down in Marks bathtub drinking hot piss from whatever crowd happens to be over dropping off rent checks to the valley's favorite landlord. (Where the fuck is Khan, anyways?)

Enough out of me. It's 6am, I couldn't sleep and I have to go out and try to enjoy New Years eve on 3 hours of lousy sleep.

Happy Fucking New Years, you cunts!