if she let you use it, that would make her a total whore.

here's how it works-you just wake up with your one night stand in bed. that's acceptable because you were being "wild" or "crazy" and you really still are a marraigable chick. but it's 2007 and "sex in the city" tells you pretty and successful single chicks do that. and it's cool.

night's over, back to pretending you're some character from the show and you bring it up to all of your hip friends at some hip place over brunch.

you wake up, you're an empowered, sex-positive chick because you took a random guy home. that's cool, but now you're sober and the experience is over and you've got that hip brunch to make after a quick, embarassing goodbye.

then the guy asks you to use personal items. you say yes, you're not sarah jessica anymore.

now you're just a pathetic, dirty whore who just got fucked and wakes up to share something husbands and wives don't do. you're getting older, you want babies, you want to be a real woman with a nice lawn and perfect life.

instead, you just let some stranger use your toothbrush. that means you're only good for being used. whores get used. sluts get used. you're used and dirty like your toothbrush. you're going to end up getting married to get married or face being 43 with shot ovaries and no chance at feeling completed except by the companionship your cat provides. then you're just pathetic and societally-expendable like old hens going through menopause eating ice cream alone and adding more cats to your life.

that's the jamesn guide to that thought process.