@ Loop: I just addressed and stuffed 60 Christmas cards so I think I know about "cat tongue". I should have used a sponge.

I hate the Christmas season. It's totally out of control now- nothing is ever enough. I don't see any way out of it, though. I don;t know anyone who's successfully dropped out of Christmas. I'm doomed anyway, because my wife grew up in a large family without much in the way of luxuries, so this is a big deal for her.

It was 80 degrees here today, on December 10th. Very unusual and I'm afraid it means theres hell to pay later this winter. Meanwhile, I'm loving it.

@ King: I'd break up with her too, if she clanks her teeth with her fork. Smacking food is another major offense. Eating should be done silently.

I've had some very vivid dreams lately. Most of them are related to deceased family members. In them I am visiting or talking with them about current issues and when I wake up I realize the problems are still unresolved and they are still dead.