She's out of porn, yes? So that means she probably isn't aware of XPT, which means she'll probably never read your post. And, even if she did, she probably wouldn't bother to respond because she probably doesn't want anything to do with her former life. And you probably know all this.
So, here's my question: Whom exactly is your post for? A lurker who might know her and be able to pass along your kind words? Yourself (which wouldn't surprise me one bit)? Bono-One (since only sexless losers wish professional cumdumpsters they jack off to happy birthday)?
I'm genuinely curious to know what your thought process was when creating your post.
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