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It's not like I asked for or need her # ...


OK, right, you don't want to send her sexually explicit pm's on XPT and have them fulfulled. If you had her phone # and not her IM address, seems to be you beat the problem.



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We aren't playing at "sex". I send her the occassional note on what's going in my life or I'm responding to what's going on in hers.


Yeah, that why you can't send her "obscene" messages, because they aren't sexual. Go on.



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Rather mundane stuff actually.


And rather than send a PM to a moderator or to Malice, yor floated your fanboi desires out into the open air. Seems you were seeking any solution to the problem, so in your mind...mundane...no.