not to get in the middle of this, but i thought norman gave you a fat check as a settlement when you divorced? why not take the money and start over? i like you robbye, i like norman, and i especially like jackie. i just dont understand why it continues to get rehashed so much. move on. stop bringing him up. wish him well or ill in the future and forget it. jackie is a great person who is an unbelievably hard worker. she and norman have always been great to me.