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Ceara,

If you really want to keep your "timid" guys as friends, then my advice is to let them hit it at least once. You don't even have to go all the way -- just some heavy petting or a deep, slow BJ.

If you let yourself be with them physically then a HUGE ball of sexual tension is released and ONLY THEN do I think true friendship is possible. Afterwards you can tell them that you think it was a mistake and that "we should only be friends".

They will still be satisfied because they got some and can stop obsessing over the sex part.

EDIT: Note: YOU will have to initiate the sex because most of them will be too shy to even bring it up. At the very least throw out some pretty overt signals and a handful will take the ball and run with it.



tritone, if this suggestion you are suggesting, that ms. lynch should just start blowing every single guy she knows because it will strengthen friendships, does not curry favor with the rest of the board, i don't know what will.
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