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#278873 - 10/02/07 04:36 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Kurt Lackwood's Fluffer
Registered: 01/16/07
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unless your a hideous monster of a woman it is impossible. and even then a week of loneliness and some alcohol and he will still try to hit it.
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#278875 - 10/02/07 04:49 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 04/14/06
Posts: 14755
Loc: Busy downloading [LEGALLY!]
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I have a few female friends. One I've had for over 20 years.
Females are more patient with my penchant for rambling on and on without a point. It helps, though, that I either have no attraction to them or any idea of attaining them is completely unrealistic.
My closest friends are male.
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#278877 - 10/02/07 05:16 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 04/14/06
Posts: 14755
Loc: Busy downloading [LEGALLY!]
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I didn't tell the story of how in college I embarrassed her when I returned her stolen panties, did I?
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#278878 - 10/02/07 05:56 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Internet Tough Guy
Registered: 04/03/07
Posts: 786
Loc: on the dark side of the moon
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The worst nightmare for a heterosexual male is to become a woman's friend, because it means that he will never get laid with you. As long as they have a normal testosterone count men think about sex every few seconds (it's a biological imperative, not a choice). Women on the other hand can meander through the day without feeling compelled to think about having sex with their male friend... Men suffer terrible physical and psychological pain when they can't get laid with their attractive female friends. That makes a friendship with an attractive woman more like martyrdom than anything else... unless, of course you find a gay male friend - then everything is great.
True friendship between a man and a woman should always culminate in an affair. Otherwise it's not a real friendship. It's just a woman exploiting a man.
Ok, maybe it's more complicated than this, and not always true, but you're lucky that I don't have much time right now, so you're spared the long essay I could write about it.
Bottom line is, I think friendship is possible.
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#278881 - 10/02/07 08:08 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Sex Slave Trader
Registered: 01/10/06
Posts: 1487
Loc: NYC
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True friendship between a man and a woman should always culminate in an affair. Otherwise it's not a real friendship. It's just a woman exploiting a man.
Well put! How true.
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#278882 - 10/02/07 08:34 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Kurt Lackwood's Fluffer
Registered: 01/09/06
Posts: 1248
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Do they come on to you, Ceara?
No, not really. Most of them are old friends that know better by now, others already have girlfriends, and then there are those who are about 10+ years older and see me as a kid-sister. Also now that I'm thinking about it, I tend to befriend pretty quiet, non aggressive, mild-mannered guys that really aren't the type to try and get pussy at any and every opportunity. But then again who knows what's going on in their head. At least they keep it to themselves.
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#278883 - 10/02/07 09:11 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 04/14/06
Posts: 14755
Loc: Busy downloading [LEGALLY!]
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I find two variety of guys can have female friends.
1. Those as Ceara described.
2. Those who can pretty much get any woman they want anyway, so they don't need to front a pretense of friendship to try to get into their pants.
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#278886 - 10/03/07 11:17 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Kurt Lackwood's Fluffer
Registered: 01/09/06
Posts: 1248
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pinupmutant, I don't know if this is the best forum to ask this question. It's funny but not surprising that a lot of the posters here cant imagine having platonic female friends. But it is absolutely possible, I guess it just depends on the people. No offense, but Ivor might have a point. If you seem to be having problems making friends with guys chances are its something you're doing (the guys you're choosing?), I don't know if it's what he suggested specifically tho. Personally I'm far too emotionally distant from anyone to use any of my guy friends as an emotional crutch so that's never been an issue as far as I can tell.
Growing up and even today I've watched my dad make friends with almost everyone he meets. He's charismatic and charming and can make even the quietest person talk and laugh.. He's an amazing cook and will regularly throw dinner parties where he invites anyone who will come, the more the merrier, young old, man woman, american foriegn. Granted I never grew up to be quite the social butterfly he is, but at least befriending someone with a penis never seemed far-fetched.
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#278888 - 10/03/07 01:08 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 11/04/06
Posts: 4203
Loc: Bakersfield Plumbing Supplies ...
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If there's one thing guys are good at, it's self-deception. Pinupmutant, odds are that whoever you pick as a male friend, he will always, deep down, hope that maybe one day you'll open the door bare ass naked with a handful of rubbers.
It's just the way we are. Or a lot of us, at least.
He may never, ever mention it, but trust me, there's always that one glimmer of hope.
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#278891 - 10/05/07 08:29 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Kurt Lackwood's Fluffer
Registered: 01/09/06
Posts: 1248
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Sorry, but I'm not gonna blow all my guy friends just to keep them as friends. If it wasn't "true" friendship I assume they would have left me alone years ago. From my experience of fucking guys like this, they end up taking it WAY more seriously than I do, fall in love with me and everything gets fucked up, not better. It's not my job to release the sexual tension of every guy I associate with (especially when I'm not even feeling it), that's what their right hand is for.
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#278896 - 10/05/07 11:11 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Zip Coon
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Registered: 04/01/07
Posts: 1958
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It's not my job to release the sexual tension of every guy I associate with (especially when I'm not even feeling it), that's what their right hand is for.
Fair enough, but if this is a guy you've known for years -- he's dependable, respectful, everything you want except not your "type" sexually -- can't you at least have some pity and break off a BJ? Or at the very least a handjob while he feels your soft, creamy breasts?
Again -- make it very clear -- Its a one time thing cause you're my friend, don't fall in love with me.
Then, give him something special to remember. An intense orgasm while he fondles your glorious mounds.
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#278898 - 10/06/07 08:31 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Internet Tough Guy
Registered: 04/03/07
Posts: 786
Loc: on the dark side of the moon
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just so you know, you've never been gayer than this moment right here
Don't make fun of him. He is totally captivated by her.
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#278899 - 10/06/07 08:43 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Internet Tough Guy
Registered: 04/03/07
Posts: 786
Loc: on the dark side of the moon
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The funny thing is that women can perceive unexpected sexual interest from a friend to be like a betrayal of the friendship. They may feel like they've been misled and their trust abused.
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#278901 - 10/06/07 08:59 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Internet Tough Guy
Registered: 04/03/07
Posts: 786
Loc: on the dark side of the moon
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You's right. Is pretty sad actaully for the men.
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#278902 - 10/06/07 10:00 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Pervert
Registered: 09/06/03
Posts: 2042
Loc: Ceara's bunny cage
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The funny thing is that women can perceive unexpected sexual interest from a friend to be like a betrayal of the friendship. They may feel like they've been misled and their trust abused.
Yes this sucks! If you are interested in the girl you never feel like bringing this up because you don't want to risk losing the friendship. You also don't want the girl to think you've been hanging around just because you think she's hot. I think of friendship as something separate to the sexual side of things. Friendships are really precious and something you don't want to lose
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#278903 - 10/06/07 10:45 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 03/28/04
Posts: 4450
Loc: The Planet Houston
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I figure I can count on honesty from all of you.
Is it possible for men and women to be friends? Just friends, nothing more. No friends with benefits, no exes that are now friends. Simply platonic friends.
I ask because I'd like to have male friends, but they always, always want to get into my pants, and then I feel bad, like I misled them somehow, and I have to cut them off completely. One of my former roommates said that he doesn't have a need for female friends, because women are for fucking, and men are for camaraderie.
What do you think?
Indirectly I had a conversation about this last night...a few of us were talking about this sexy porn star that we all are cool with. But I won’t bang her, not take a blow job, nothing. .mainly because I’m just her friend and in my head I set a boundary, and I’m tight with her husband.
And then are some that I am friends that are really hot but they have done something that extremely turns me off, like one that openly exhibits flatulence.
Other than that, Yes I can be 'just friends' with a chick, but if i initiate meeting a girl, it's mainly because i wanna lick their ass for a half an hour. i'm mighty selective though...so a lot get assigned to the 'acquaintance' file
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Too many women use male "friends" as substitutes to give the emotional support they need, that they should be getting from their partner, to enable them to fuck losers.
'brilliance' say I! I have encountered this in porn a lot.
One crazy bitch thought that she could call me up @ 8:30 in the A.M. to tell me what’s going on in her pathetic life, then when I try to put it together, she starts talking about her ‘man’, and I’m like ‘well then call your fuckin ‘man’ and leave me the fuck alone.’ I ain’t got no time for early morning coke whore rants.
…but I got time to duck*
I don’t know…Maybe it’s due to my time as a pseudo-porn reporter i have learned how to feign interest realistically in whatever they may be babbling about or because of my relationship with the chix in the inner circle (Eva, Stormy, CC, etc..) that trust me with aspects of their lives, others mistakenly figure they can…
I’m of the opinion, you make your bed, you lie in it. So if you wanna roll with some cat who you gotta pay his rent, or he acts like a bitch when you do a blowbang to pay for his ed hardy gear, don’t call my ass to whine about. Shit cuts into my nap time.
*Predator (1987)
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#278905 - 10/06/07 01:55 PM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 01/02/05
Posts: 5750
Loc: ATLANTIC CITY
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i had 7 sisters growing up so i had all the platonic friends shit in spades til i was 15
What would you otherwise expect? .... you sound as if you were hoping for something 'other' than platonic with your sisters, or that something like nightly creampies before bedtime with sisters 1 thru 4 (aged 17 thru 14), while sisters 5 and 6 (aged 12 and 10) watched and masturbated nervously over the frightening yet arousing spectacle of your cock in the older sisters' asses, and sister 7 (age 9) was paid 50 cents by you and kept lookout at the base of ths stairs for mom & dad, was deeply desired by you. Is this so? If it is, if this is what you desired, then this is the forum to voice such fantasies...just dont be surprised if you are called "LAME" by Lame-or-cool guy.
Although anyone ever notice that Brother-sister debauchery is always kinda hot when it is OTHER people you are thinking about and the sisters are total bombshells? What is it about such filth? Is it the convenience and ease of a brother and sister being so logistically close to make liasons easy, added to the Taboo nature of it all? Can anyone else here imagine someone like Hillary Scott, when she was 16, seducing her 18 yr old brother and then blackmailing him into giving her 75% of his weekly afterschool job paycheck, while also occasionally fucking him late at night when SHE wanted it or when SHE was horny, with her constantly reminding her poor hapless horny trapped brother "Remember, all I have to do is say 'rape' and they will lock you up...they will believe me and they wont believe you because afterall, you are just a hormone driven young man and I am a beautiful, intelligent girl who cant help the fact that you stare at me and my panties when i am in the bathroom brushing my teeth for 10 minutes with the door wide open and all the lights on with my ass sticking out the door to make it unavoidable to your eyesight...."
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#278909 - 11/14/07 08:29 AM
Re: Platonic Male-Female Relationships
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Porn Fucking Master
Registered: 10/30/06
Posts: 3812
Loc: Neither here, nor there.
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I Stumbled on something today that talks about the whole "platonic male-female" friendship issue. It's a bit wordy, but there are some good sections to it. Ladder
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