i dont disagree with the first paragraph of her statement. but you are taking the blame away from the girl and you arent taking into account that she is an adult with her own free will. i just cant get behind the theory that we as a society are somehow supposed to mentor or shepherd fellow adults. our society is social darwinism to a small extent and this is the case here, no? its sad, but a fact of life that some people arent going to live to be 80 for whatever reason.