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I intend to call the cemetery records office Monday. From experience, they tend to be VERY hesitant to give that info to the public. Much has changed in the past 10 years regarding this info, which used to be handed out freely, largely because of invasion-of-privacy laws stemming from the AIDS crisis.



If there is an invasion-of-privacy issue concerning the disclosure of this information, then perhaps the cemetery rep would be less hesitant to simply confirm that she is NOT buried there.