1) Trust your feelings.
2) In every relationship you must learn to negotiate and compromise. If you're not prepared to negotiate, the relationship can't last.
3) Every conflict is a test. If you manage to resolve a conflict your bond will be stronger. Trust grows.
4) Lies. Some people are living lies. They're pretty much dead inside. But it doesn't sound like you would be attracted to such a woman.
5) Men and women think, feel and communicate differently. Most of the time between couples is spent trying to resolve misunderstandings (or so-called lies). Guys usually want to focus on one issue while women see everything connected.