See now we are getting somewhere! This is the kind of shit I need to know. I may have had unreal expectations on every woman that I ever wanted to have more than sex with...but riddle me this drunkwoman. WHY in the fuck do women go on and on about honesty when they obviously dont always like an honest answer and may be genetically incapable of giving one. Help me with that shit and we may get to the root....lastly I have dated women that seemed capable of truth in my younger days,before I could appreciate a good woman. They are few and far between. ps. I cannot drink on work nights either.. how do you pull that shit off? Hangovers make me antisocial(not good for customer relations)