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Dude, that is why I don't date. I feel your pain.

Why do chicks lie? Because they can't handle the truth. I never lied, I just avoided most of the obstacles I saw coming by dumping the dude first or just ignoring shit till it didn't work anymore. Its only now in my 30's can I tactfully or truthfully without padding, say no.

Try a fuck buddy, and keep it on the downlow. No promises, no expectations, and with no return on an investment that can't go wrong. It works till it doesn't... but then move on. Liberating. I dated a married guy for a short period of time. The whole don't ask don't tell about each others lives was awesome. A "civilian" is never going to understand the porn world. Me, never having been married would never understand a wife that doesn't want to put out, and frankly I don't want to hear the drama. First date was a "hey, even though I get tested, I might expose you to an STD even with a condom" and "hey, she never touched me for insane number of x years after she had a kid." The loose relationship worked till it didn't, and then life was simple again.

Life on a different day will be different. Just wait, and watch it happen.




Michelle, That was perfect. I love the attitude and outlook. I knew I liked you for a reason.