two points from your post.

1. any "barebacking" as you say, was done with both parties having AIM tests, which makes it exactly the same scene as Boy/Girl.

2. it was my 3rd job after college. i was a Graduate Assistant Basketball Coach at a Div. II school in San Antonio for a year, and then i left to Oklahoma to be the Asst. Basketball Coach at Northeast Oklahoma A&M College for a year.