A man's sexual fantasies seem to move inexorably from pleasuring to paining women; the idea of breaking up a woman's face with a meat mallet ends up being far more erotic than that of hitting her g spot.

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Self-deception facilitates harm to others and to oneself, undermines autonomy, corrupts conscience, violates authenticity, and manifests a vicious lack of courage and self-control that undermines the capacity for compassionate action.