First off falling for a cop isn't a good thing.. and here is why. A lot of them especially here in NYC have a girl in every boro and are horn dogs. I know first hand how they are. I have a lot of friends on the job and I love hearing the stories of how many "ladies" they have. As for taking a chance in the PO finding out about the extra baggage.. that's a chance you shouldn't take unless he swings both ways. Which as far as I know not many do. I am not trying to discourage you in any way just saying you should be careful. Falling for a cop has its ups and down.. and could be a lot of fun with the right person. I have always been one that loves a man in uniform..