I don't use butter, cream, or milk and MY OATMEAL IS DELICIOUS!!! Instead of sugar, use raw agave syrup, raw honey or stevia. Raisins are fine as long as they're real actual unsweetened raisins and not the Sunmaid ones covered in crap. Nuts are fine, but I'm not into nuts. Adding blueberries to oatmeal = yummmmm.
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"What I do know is that if Karen Carpenter and Mama Cass Elliot had shared that sandwich they'd both be alive today." -Michael K