Sorry all for the delay in responding, I can’t access XPT at work and so can’t always respond in a timely fashion.

This is going to be long and there will be some backtracking, forgive me in advance.

Ravyn, I have to call you out about giving Kurt a fair shake. You posted a day or two after the Gram incident to XFANZ for sure and I think DVD Talk as well that you were “waiting for an explanation of his behavior.” This was prior to your interview with him, so clearly there was no thought of “a fair shake” in that statement. Furthermore, you were pleased with your interview and thanked him more than once. You also posted to his MySpace and Group several times posts that could be described as sycophantic, most recently to a Boogie Nights blog on July 19th. So if there’s Kool Aid to be drunk you must partake along with us. It goes great with scones.

HoustonDon, your continued refusal to believe that Kurt (Steve) could have friends and not slavering fangirls borders on the absurd. Are we fans? Of course we are. And why is that such a dirty word? Isn’t that the whole point of being a performer? But I’ve gotten to know Kurt fairly well in the past year and I don’t think it’s a stretch to say we are friends. If you can’t accept that, then that’s really on you. It’s funny, because I can accept that you don’t like him and yet my liking of him – to you – is ridiculous. Trying to trivialize and marginalize me, Paula and Kitty doesn’t change the very…simple…fact that we like him. Any incident has two sides and with all of the stuff you mentioned (and yes, we already knew) you choose to believe one side, us the other.

Papercut, wow. My sojourn into your world of porn has only been since I became aware of Kurt Lockwood. I’ve learned more than I ever imagined, some of it I REALLY didn’t need or want to know (like bukkake). But I think more than anything else what I’ve come to understand is that whatever is negotiated between two consenting adults in the privacy of their bedroom is fair game. So your question is spurious and unanswerable.

Oh, and one final thing. I have been amazed at the names you guys call the very women you are jacking off to. Many of you show a strong loathing for the females getting you off…what does that say about you? If I didn’t like the guys that I was watching it wouldn’t excite me. Maybe that is the basic difference between men and women – or at least the men on XPT.

Claire