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Kurt, I would really hate to see how you would be if you were a celebrity in the mainstream rather than a recognizable face in the adult-entertainment world. Okay, judging by your myspace page you have quite a fan following. Cool, good for you. Why do you let the "haters" get to you so bad then? From minor criticisms to some mean jokes on the internet, why do these things get you so angry?

In porn, you mainly have adult magazines, internet forums like this and ADT, and a handful of bloggers talking about you. Some say good things, some say not so good things. And we've all seen how you handle the not so good things said about you.

Let's pretend you were a mainstream celebrity, and Conan O'Brien made a joke about you on worldwide TV. Would you confront him, rip off your shirt, and shove him around while yelling "Call me a fag now?"

What if you were directed a feature film and Mad Magazine wrote up a parody of it. Would you type up a letter in ALL-CAPS telling them it was a good movie and they have no place to make fun of it because they haven't made movies themselves?

Let's say your music career took off and you actually had a hit song(with the drivel I hear on the radio these days, I wouldn't be surprised if this actually happened). I dread to even think what you would do to Weird Al if he approached you wanting permission to do a parody of the song.

My point is this: Many other people in the entertainment business(adult and mainstream) are able to ignore the "haters"(or maybe even look at their criticisms and use them in a constructive way). Why can't you?




This is actually a very good question, Moron. It goes to the crux. What you haters don't understand is that unlike say...Tom Cruise, who let's admit, gets hated on wayyy more than me, I and my fellow porn stars, don't have his millions of dollars and millions of sycophantic fans to buffer ourselves from you the way they do. Hey, if like Tom Cruise, I could say "fuck Willie D., I'm going to Bora Bora," then I could absolutely inure myself the way they appear to do. I say "appear" because tho they may not obviously respond like I am doing, many celebrities are far more obsessed about their press than me to the point where they do have all those advantages and still obsess over the gossip rags. When I got into porn, I was ready for the scorn society looks at porn stars, I was ready for the scorn of my family of Irish Catholic cops/Vietnam War vets, but grown men who are supposed to be fans yet try to ruin us with lies and rumors both professional and personally so that they can earn cheap banner ad money thru gossip sites? I have to admit, this new low took me by surprise. I think it's really wrong for all of you who would hate on me or anyone else in the biz to do so from the standpoint of an anonymous nickname on the internet. How dare you. We in the biz have been thu enough in our lives. And we try to make the best of our sitiuation but we have all been thru shit and ended up here and for you to kick us when we are down is the worst sin of all. Much moreso than any accused hubris on my part. What really sickens me about this board is that there are people who post here who if they could press a button and have me killed they would do it in a fucking heartbeat. Yet, given the same opportunity, I wouldn't press the button to kill any of you. Not a single one. Now, let me ask you this? Does that make me a better person than you?