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I'm fine with asking a guy not to do something, but if I have to ask him TO do something, it kills the mood. Just man up and do whatever then I'll let you know.



I had a girlfriend once who liked to be fisted. There was no way she would have gotten that if she hadn't asked.

I like anal. I don't know very many women who would go for it if I just "do whatever". They generally appreciate a heads up.