There's a follow up at TER.

SO YOU WAN'T TO DATE A CIVILIAN

1. Don’t ask, “What’s on the menu?” You’re going to have to figure that out on your own.

2. Fight the urge to take a shower afterwards. Also, that “quick rinse” you naturally want to take beforehand is usually a no-no too.

3. It’s OK to take more than 60 minutes. And you don’t need to offer her extra for more time.

4. Avoid the “lingo”. i.e. Do you do greek? Are multiple pops on the menu? (See #1.)

5. Resist the urge to scream “Who’s your daddy?” while doing her doggie style and slapping her ass. (Come to think of it, you probably should resist the urge to do that with a pro too.

6. Don’t expect that she has prepared for greek ahead of time.

7. Don’t offer her extra to do greek. In fact, you should probably just assume that greek is not going to be on the menu. Ever. (Also, in general offering her “extra” for anything is a bad idea. See for example #3.)

8. Don’t leave a tip afterwards. I know it’s one way to show your appreciation, but civilians seem to have an issue with it…

9. Don’t refer to your time together as a “session”. (See #4.)

10. Keep the toys in the closet. Pulling out your dildo collection along with a half dozen varieties of lube usually doesn’t make a civilian feel special.

11. Don't post a review of her performance on a message board afterwards.