c/p from Kurt's MySpace Blog
From what I read here.. I do tend to agree with him..



The Three Types of Guys in Adult

Based on my last blog, I received an e-mail from one of the bf's of a girl in the biz who thought it was unfair that I talked about the women but didn't do the same for the men. Fair enough. So here it is. The Three Types of Guys in Adult. And again, I'm only talking about the guys who work as male performers on-camera, NOT the webmasters, photographers, etc. Anyway, I found that differentiating the guys was a little bit more of a challenge as the categories for definition change with the sexes. But I have distilled them down to the following:

1. The Bro

2. The Psycho

3. The Damned-If-I-Know


1. First off, we have "The Bro." These are the thirty or so guys who shoot a scene nearly everyday. I've called this category "The Bro" because that's what we say on set. If somebody is on-set and the director says to them, "Hey my guy for the second scene just cancelled, do you know anybody?" That somebody would say, "Oh yeah, use so-and-so." And the director would respond, "Yeah? Is he good? Is that your boy?' and that somebody would say "Yeah, he's cool. He's a BRO." In our business, being a "bro" is like mob-speech for a "goodfella." It means you vouch for him. He's cool. A "Bro" is a professional, he shows up (relatively) on-time, he's got his up-to-date clean AIM test, he's got his wardrobe, he's got his I.D.'s, he treats the girls with respect, he's got good personal hygiene, he's not loaded, he doesn't look like he's been up all night previously doing blow, he gets wood, he opens up for the camera, he pops and he goes home and prepares for the next one. No harm no foul, awesome hot scene in the can. The "Bro" is the epitome of male talent.


2. Next, we have "the Psycho." Honestly, this is the worst. Because they are stealth and they blend in and many of them work just as much as "the Bro's." The "Psycho" guys can be "Psycho" for many reasons. The first and foremost version of the "Psycho" are the unfortunate group of rapists who conceal themselves as male porn stars. We all know who these "psychos" are. They are the ones who continually assault the girls and call it "rough sex" but it goes wayyy beyond. These are the guys who I don't even think are really even attracted to women, it's all about domination and violence to them rather than any sense of a "real lust exchange." I'm not saying that there isn't a market for this type of stuff but these "Psycho" guys bring the same beat-the-living-shit-out-of-the-girl aesthetic to EVERY SINGLE SCENE THEY DO. The other form of "Psycho" are the stalkers. These are guys who try to call the girl before their scene together, they try to fuck the girl before the scene, they try to go home with the girl after the scene, they try to get the girl's number to try to hook up with them on another night. A healthy sex appetite is necessary to be a successful male performer but these guys take it to a fault. Ultimately these stalker version of the "Psycho" guys are harmless but they can be annoying as fuck, ask any of the girls and they will be able to name a half dozen of these guys right off the top of their head. This stalker has a kid-in-a-candy-store disease where you can never get enough pussy no matter how many scenes a day you shoot and this can also lead to the last type of "psycho" behavior that is found in this category, and this is really the scariest of the bunch for health reasons, the steroid 'psychos." There is a top guy in this business, I won't say who, but this guy has shot every single kind of steroid you can shoot into his body. He's done the one for the muscles so he's all hulk-like (he tried to get me to buy these from him when he first got in the business), AND it's well-known in the business that he shoots his dick up with the steroid, Caverjet which gives you an erection. The funny thing is, this guy won major awards and he acts like he didn't cheat at all (which let's face it, if you have to shoot your dick up to do a scene, it's cheating and you should NOT be winning any awards to say the least.) When I first got in the business five years ago, there wasn't even Viagra, you had to be au natural. Now, these steroid "Psycho"s are ruining their bodies (I did a three-way scene with the aforementioned Caverjet user and two-thirds thu the scene the girl started laughing uncontrollably at the guy because as a result of all his steroid use, THE GUY HAS NO BALLS ANYMORE!). I call these guys "psycho's" because everyone knows that excessive use of shooting steroids into your body has long term effects. Guess what those side effects will be after years of shooting up your dick? NO DICK! THAT'S why these guys are "Psycho's." I love pussy as much as the next male performer but if I have to shoot my dick up to do a scene? I'll pick up a camera and make a living as cameraman first. It's really sad that these guys can't see the damage that they are doing to themselves (not to mention the risk they are putting themselves and the girls they work with in when they put an open needle hole in their dick before having unprotected sex. It's sad that the addiction to pussy will cause guys who are actually intelligent, to ruin their bodies and recklessly expose themselves and the girls' they are working with to more of a chance of getting a disease. Why aren't more women upset about this?
Anyway, before I close on this section, I should mention that ALL male talent are a little "Psycho" we would have to be to able to have sex on camera and lose our privacy for all the world to see, right? There are just levels of "Psycho"-ness. Some are more harmless than others.

3. And lastly and perhaps the most easilly defined, The "Damned-If-I-Know." Basically, these are your beginning guys or "load" guys. An easy way to tell if a guy is in this category is if you ask, "Who is that guy?" and the answer is "Damned-If-I-Know," he's in this category.

In conclusion, you will never find a "Bro" in the third category obviously or by definition, vice versa . But the scary thing is that a lot of the guys in the second category can also be found hidden in the first (and third) categories, so it's difficult for girls and directors to differentiate and be forewarned. The "Psycho"s aren't mutually exclusive as say, the categories for women based on performance. Because if a girl sucks, she can still perform, if a guy can't perform, he's out. Therefore, ALL of the guys can at least somewhat perform or they wouldn't be here at all on the list and you can't differentiate the same way you can for women-performance wise.

Now I know I will get responses about how you could further deliniate the difference in guys at the top, award winners vs. non, etc. but I think in terms of narrowing it down to an easy "3 types" this is as good as I could define. Where do I see myself? I'm definitely in the "Bro" category as I work nearly everyday, some would say that my somewhat aggressive antipathy towards gossiping hater-dudes has sometimes led to "psycho" behavior from me towards these douchebag gossip writers but as I have never done a steroid in my life, never stalked a chick, and never beat one up on-set and called it a "sex performance." I do not put myself into that category but I'm sure there are others who would try. As I said, all us guys are in some way a little "psycho" for performing in adult in the first place, but again, it's all in the degrees.

<paging mr ponante> ....... wtf did i just read anyway....who gives a shit???

the only kind of guy you need in porn is the kind that realizes he needs to keep wood, shut the fuck up and stay the fuck out of the way. unfortunately, i cannot provide an example of this...

You could also break them down into three other categories:
1) I'm the Shit types: They think the reason you buy the porn (or download it) is to see them in action, not the women. While consumers would find this concept alien, some men in porn are deluded into thinking anyone cares about them over the women. They act like their mere presence drives sales and they have a tendency to get violent when threatened. They can often be spotted when they make claims about their popularity, how often they work, or how many copies of their last title were given away for free in Europe as though this counted as sales.

2) My shit don't stink types: These are the ones that think they can do no wrong on and off the set. Their self perceived superiority to everyone around them causes them to think they should be catered to under all circumstances and they freely give their opinions about how to run a set. Some of them assault writers or constantly whine about all the "haters" in the world; forgetting that the only hate is coming from themselves. They sometimes point fingers about substance abuse but forget that viagra is a controlled substance too. They are slightly different than the ones above but often run together in packs (for reasons pointed out below).

3) I like it in the shitter types: These are the proud folk that like being on the receptive end of anal sex; be it in their private life, their onscreen antics, or when they are escorting with gay/bi/tranny males. They like a hard cock in their ass and sometimes pretend to be "gay for pay" to cover up their real sexuality, getting particularly defensive when someone starts asking them questions about their sexual preference. They go out of their way to act aggressive towards those who comment, their state of denial amusing to those of us on XPT (and elsewhere).

Keep in mind that these types are not mutually exclusive and their current "Prince" (I'd say "Queen" but I don't want to start smacking him around online again) has been known to wear green Peter Pan outfits while smoking various substances; embracing all three types from what has been documented by Gene, Luke, and the crazy crew over at XPT.

I totally agree with you and I know who you are referring to as well.See I knew that this would make for a interesting read! roflmao

Mr. Lockwood forgot a very important category of male porn stars. The primadonna--"artiste"--"rockstar"--set disrupting--balding--faggot in denial.

So is Kurt the psycho or hell if I know?

If you read HoustonDon's post, you'll realize Kurt is all three of the listed categories at any given time.

well.. I am sadden to say (NOT) that one of kurt's misguided females that swear he is the hottest thing the adult industry removed me from the my space group I_ heart_KurtLockwood. What's funny is that he bad mouth everyone over here including Mia Rose which Kurt shouldnt be throwing stones in glass houses. Mind you I did an interview with him for dvdtalk and yes he was actually nice about it. But I gather offending his misguided flunkies is wrong in there eyes. If by chance they read this.. I really dont care what is said about me and further more I can safe say that unlike others who fall to their knees because of Kurt you are all delusional.. there are a few other male performer so much better than Mr. Lockwood and out of courtsey I played nice and gave him the respect he deserved. Since the group leader and the other peons enjoy removing ppl without so much as an explaination well in my case being able to express myself they can enjoy their group with out me. BTW this is the second time .. if any of their memebers have any issues with me have the conjones to confront me.. thanks for the great time on the group.. NOT!
http://www.dvdtalk.com:80/adult/black_owned_2_j.html (interview)

Well put.

thanks! I just get tired of the mind games they play over there and find it absurd that they are that one track minded. If I wanted to be evil I would post the stuff that he said about Mia but that would put me at his level and trust me I wouldnt want to go there..

thats the way I am. I given everyone that respect.

yes he does.. its run by two of his adoring fans.. and he has an xpeeps page as well from what i remember. The my space group was made private.. gee wonder what they are hiding.. *eg*

I want to hear someone flesh out the rumors that Kurt Lockwood got into porn after failing out as a gay escort.

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