If Kurt would have just done the girl/guy strap-on scenes, we would have made fun of him called him gay, and probably would have been finished with the Kurt bashing by now.

You see, the fact that it upsets him so much that he tries to pick fights with a blogger and sends ALL CAPS 900 word rants to posters of the porn boards through myspace kinda makes people want to call him gay even more.

I think there are two reasons for this:

1. When a person is accused of being gay and reacts to the accusations with extreme anger(in Kurt's case, shoving Gram and the rants), many times it is later found out that the person was, in fact, gay(just really uncomfortable with it at the time).

2.It's fun to wait and see what he does next every time some one angers him by calling him gay.

Once again, if Kurt would have done the strap-on scenes and went on about his business not worrying what everyone thought about the matter, the whole Kurt bashing affair would more than likely be over with by now.