Don:
You answered my question fine. I was just getting the feeling that things were getting a bit out of hand and it was appearing to become a more personal vendetta - on BOTH sides.
As for your mention of the Gram/Lockwood confrontation and the need for someone to speak out...why? I'm not convinced that it is necessary as their actions speak for themselves and, since the vid clips of the assault were readily available on many sites (and quite entertaining, I must add, in a macabre way) going to someone's defense (or offense) after the fact probably won't make a bit of difference either way other than to provide it with additional publicity. Also, Lockwood is Lockwood; Gram is Gram. I don't know of anyone who is surprised at what took place.
And thanks again for your answer to my question.
db