Yeah, a lot of that's true, Burg, and lord knows I'm a Dick too. I'm not defending the choices she's made, the bad decisions and some of the Divaish behaviour. All I'm saying is that I've been where Mia and Holly have been. At the Thirty Day mark, you'rew still unsure and often more than a bit shakey. Give her some time to get some perspective, phisically, mentally and emotionally. THEN tear her a new asshole. Around the Ninety Day mark is good. That's when the last physicals ymptoms of withdrawal (after long term abuse) are gone.