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what bothers me is that none of these porn gossip writers can imagine that porn can just be another job: pays the bills, makes you more than flipping burgers, you don't have to work long ass hours and you don't have to see the same people every day.

It pisses me off big time that I have to be categorized with the usual crack whore picture they have in mind when they think porn actress. I go to work, show up there, do my thing, go home and collect my pay check, pay my bills and fall asleep on the couch watching TV in the night. I like this business, I love the people and I'm happy to have the chance to do this.

NO, I do NOT feel ashamed. I life my life, go to work and just try to be the best person I can for myself, my family and my friends.

Let me ask you: are you ashamed? why are you not writing for a political magazine or a real newspaper? do you have a picture perfect life and a "respectable" job? Stop judging porn stars, obviously you are obsessed with them plus you make a living writing about us (at least I hope it pays off for you in one way or the other)

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nah, I'm not gonna do that. I'm not making a fool out of myself holding stupid ass pictures for you to make fun of.

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nah, I'm not gonna do that. I'm not making a fool out of myself holding stupid ass pictures for you to make fun of. actually I'm going to send a text message to Monstar that I'm posting here now. Ask him if he got it...

and why would I retire? are you tired of me yet? I don't even call your phone every day, it's easy to avoid me...

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I think its Katja herself.

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I think its Katja herself.

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that would be good news

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Indeed. Stick around Katja.

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Anyone with even a smidgen of psychological training will tell you that sex workers, such has adult performers or escorts, have to emotionally disassociate themselves from the sex act due to the fact they are having sex with dozens of different partners a week. Some disassociate due to psychological issues where others develop it to deal with their situation. Essentially psychologists will tell you that sex workers simply lack a conscience.

Its also interesting to compare pornstars to Dr. Robert Hare's profile of the typical psychopath:

glib and superficial charm
grandiose (exaggeratedly high) estimation of self
need for stimulation
pathological lying
cunning and manipulativeness
lack of remorse or guilt
shallow affect(superficial emotional responsiveness)
callousness and lack of empathy
parasitic lifestyle
poor behavioral controls
sexual promiscuity
early behavior problems
lack of realistic long-term goals
impulsivity
irresponsibility
failure to accept responsibility for own actions
many short-term marital relationships
juvenile delinquency
revocation of conditional release
criminal versatility (attraction to criminal activity)

Female psychopaths are incredibly rare and research on them is based on too small a sample to be reliable.

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well, that's a shame because I feel pretty normal. but I'm sure you know better...

Porn is for sure something not everyone can handle or accept and I don't expect them to but there are others who do just fine. My motivation is not self esteem issues or sexual molestation in my childhood or shit like that, my motivation is good pay. I think I'm doing something I'm good at and that's a good thing.
Maybe it's just that I'm European and you damn Americans are too fucking weird about everything that has to do with sex but I don't see why it's bad making a living by performing in sex movies for an audience. I just don't feel bad for it, sorry...


yeah and I do perform anal, dp and whatnot scenes but that doesn't mean I jump every time somebody snaps their finger at me. So I'm not gonna take stupid ass pictures holding signs, I'm not your groupie. Why don't you all make a sign for me first saying how much you love Katja? and if you can seriously make me believe you don't feel stupid I will go ahead and make a sign for you

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Okay King, I'm back on the fence now.

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... I'm not buying it. Sorry.

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Its also interesting to compare pornstars to Dr. Robert Hare's profile of the typical psychopath....

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actually I'm going to send a text message to Monstar that I'm posting here now. Ask him if he got it...

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i done got it. it's really miss katja.

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...an xpt regular, ranting about porn performers to emphasize his own sexual inferiority and self-hatred.
More interesting to compare xpt regulars with profiles of typical alcoholics with some form of sexual impotency or another.

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I wasn't generalizing about all xpt members, just the ones who admit they believe sex is shameful, like you.

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Thank you for your comically defensive response, and for affirming my theory.

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I'm in an alt id guessin mood, so I'm gonna have a go. Obviously educated. Possibly female. Well spoken. I'm going with Cassandra, mainly because it's more fun around here when she posts and I think she likes stirring shit up every once in a while.

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Careful King. Last time I implied a poster MAY have been Cassandra she flipped her shit and immediately emailed Jeff to use him as the middle man, telling him to "shut his whore up" and insisted she was over porn, XPT, and that I needed to get over her. Clearly someone so quick to regonize a comment in here about herself wants nothing to do with you degenerates anymore.

With that said. Hay Cassandra, how's it going?

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Careful King.

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I have a backup alt id guess I'll use if I start getting heat from the xpt upper management.

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Careful King.

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I have a backup alt id guess I'll use if I start getting heat from the xpt upper management.

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So do I.

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Careful King.

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I have a backup alt id guess I'll use if I start getting heat from the xpt upper management.

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Why don't you all make a sign for me first saying how much you love Katja? and if you can seriously make me believe you don't feel stupid I will go ahead and make a sign for you

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what bothers me is that none of these porn gossip writers can imagine that porn can just be another job: pays the bills, makes you more than flipping burgers, you don't have to work long ass hours and you don't have to see the same people every day.

It pisses me off big time that I have to be categorized with the usual crack whore picture they have in mind when they think porn actress. I go to work, show up there, do my thing, go home and collect my pay check, pay my bills and fall asleep on the couch watching TV in the night. I like this business, I love the people and I'm happy to have the chance to do this.

NO, I do NOT feel ashamed. I life my life, go to work and just try to be the best person I can for myself, my family and my friends.

Let me ask you: are you ashamed? why are you not writing for a political magazine or a real newspaper? do you have a picture perfect life and a "respectable" job? Stop judging porn stars, obviously you are obsessed with them plus you make a living writing about us (at least I hope it pays off for you in one way or the other)

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any rule has it's exceptions, you katja may be completely unaffected by your career choice, yet if you look at the antics of your fellow co-workers- ranging from chronic drug use, petty crime, absenteeism, bizarre antics, emotional trauma, suicide, violence- it's pretty clear that people in porn are struggling with their inner demons, though it's tough to say what role shame is playing.

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any rule has it's exceptions, you katja may be completely unaffected by your career choice, yet if you look at the antics of your fellow co-workers- ranging from chronic drug use, petty crime, absenteeism, bizarre antics, emotional trauma, suicide, violence- it's pretty clear that people in porn are struggling with their inner demons, though it's tough to say what role shame is playing.

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Correlation doesn't imply causation. Maybe drug-abuse and the need for easy money leads some to porn-work, but you've yet to argue that porn causes inner-struggles or vice.

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glib and superficial charm
grandiose (exaggeratedly high) estimation of self
need for stimulation
pathological lying
cunning and manipulativeness
lack of remorse or guilt
shallow affect(superficial emotional responsiveness)
callousness and lack of empathy
parasitic lifestyle
poor behavioral controls
sexual promiscuity
early behavior problems
lack of realistic long-term goals
impulsivity
irresponsibility
failure to accept responsibility for own actions
many short-term marital relationships
juvenile delinquency
revocation of conditional release
criminal versatility (attraction to criminal activity)

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Shelley Lubben: 'Women do not enjoy making porn movies'

She writes in her new book:

Many believe the widespread fairytale that women enjoy making porn movies but in reality there are no happy endings for the women of porn. Women do NOT enjoy making porn movies and a closer behind-the-scenes look will show you several reasons why.

In the world of hardcore sex production, an average day on the porn set for a porn actress is a long and tedious process. Women are told to come in at 8 am for makeup but it’s only to make certain porn actresses arrive on time to work. Porn stars have a terrible habit of arriving late because they’re often hung over from drugs or alcohol from the night before.

After make up, porn actresses usually wait around long hours until it’s their turn to do their scene. Some scenes take an hour and some take several hours to film. It really depends if the male actor in the first scene could “perform” or not. It also depends if female actresses have to stop the clock because they can’t handle the pain of a hardcore sex scene.

While waiting around for long hours, jaded porn performers are bored and usually end up in the rest rooms with bottles of alcohol and a few lines of speed or outside in their cars for a heroin fix or gathered in the back yard with other actors to smoke marijuana. For me, I usually ended up in the back yard of some lavish mansion in Malibu with a bottle of Jack Daniels in my hand and a group of male porn actors standing nearby offering me hits of marijuana or lines of speed.

Other porn stars agree with me. Jenna Presley says in an interview with porn journalist [on lukeisback.com], “I think that 90% of the business does drugs or alcohol but maybe 70% have a problem. I include pot as a drug. I know people who come on set stoned and they can’t perform. A drug problem to me is when it affects your work life.”

To add to the mind-numbing process, women are never able to experience sexual pleasure during the making of a porn movie because of the continuous cutting during sex scenes. In the background the director constantly yells, “cut” and the flow of action is interrupted in order to get a better shot, adjust lighting or to wipe up bodily fluids. Repeatedly pornographers stop the scenes and some times ask actors to “freeze” in position during very hardcore sex acts, which causes great physical and emotional pain for porn actresses.

I speak from personal experience when I say to be in the middle of a hardcore sex act with several actors at the same time and told to “freeze” in position for several minutes while lighting or cameras are adjusted is extremely painful and degrading. It’s also very humiliating when scenes are stopped in order to wipe up bodily fluids such as semen, feces and blood.Despite the fact that women do not enjoy making porn movies, they continue to lie to their fans and proudly insist they enjoy making porn movies. Of course they do. They get paid hundreds and thousands of dollars to lie because this is their profession. Porn stars are paid professional liars who know how to “act” and they do it well. In fact, because porn stars spend a great deal time in front of the camera and never step out of character, they usually have more acting abilities than mainstream Hollywood actors.

I used to brag endlessly to fans and pornographers about my extreme “Italian” sex drive and how I loved making porn movies. I would go on and on about how I needed more and more to fulfill my insatiable appetite. I lied 100% of the time to 100% of the people. Lying is the native language of porn stars because they can’t afford to tell you the truth. Not only would it ruin the fantasy for their fans but more importantly, it would ruin the amount of their paychecks. Don’t believe porn actresses when they proudly proclaim they enjoy making porn movies.

They’re ACTING.

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Maybe it's just that I'm European and you damn Americans are too fucking weird about everything that has to do with sex ....

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Katja, has it occurred to you that most of your income is earned in the United States, which has the largest porn industry and is probably the largest porn market in the world (per capita expenditures on porn)? I would tell you not to bite the hand that feeds you....

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Katja, has it occurred to you that most of your income is earned in the United States, which has the largest porn industry and is probably the largest porn market in the world (per capita expenditures on porn)? I would tell you not to bite the hand that feeds you....

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NitneLiun, has it occurred to you that she's correct about Americans? And that anyone who'd deny it is probably ignorant and poor, in no position to feed anyone.

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NitneLiun, has it occurred to you that she's correct about Americans? And that anyone who'd deny it is probably ignorant and poor, in no position to feed anyone.

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Please go here for oversimplified anti-American rants. Thanks!

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Katja, has it occurred to you that most of your income is earned in the United States, which has the largest porn industry and is probably the largest porn market in the world (per capita expenditures on porn)? I would tell you not to bite the hand that feeds you....

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NitneLiun, has it occurred to you that she's correct about Americans? And that anyone who'd deny it is probably ignorant and poor, in no position to feed anyone.

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NitneLiun, has it occurred to you that she's correct about Americans? And that anyone who'd deny it is probably ignorant and poor, in no position to feed anyone.

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I just find it very hypocritical for Katja to make what is presumably a decent living in the enormous American porn industry which caters to an enormous American porn market while complaining that Americans are weird (inhibited and ashamed) about sex.

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I just find it very hypocritical for Katja to make what is presumably a decent living in the enormous American porn industry which caters to an enormous American porn market while complaining that Americans are weird (inhibited and ashamed) about sex.

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I'm failing to find any hypocrisy in that. In the contest between America and Europe to see which side is most afraid of bare female breasts, America is #1. The American FCC wins the award for most fear of nudity and sex. America wins the award for most fear of 17 year olds having anything to do with sex, and the most fear that abortion-pills may encourage sin. Americans are inclined to call one a psychopath if she sunbathes topless; less so in Europe.

It's no coincidence that America is also #1 in its demand for porn. If Americans weren't messed up in the head about sex, they'd spend less time watching it and more time having it.

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Shut the fuck up already. Nobody cares what you think asshole. Yeah, Europe the land of open sexuality where beastiality and pedophilia are celebrated as the last great bastions of sexual freedom and Austrian leather power bottoms are considered role models, I guess that's why you fit in so well. Welcome Mike Ramone, socialist leather bitch, to the board everyone.

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I'm neither ignorant nor poor. In fact, I'm pretty well educated and fairly well to do by most standards. I just find it very hypocritical for Katja to make what is presumably a decent living in the enormous American porn industry which caters to an enormous American porn market while complaining that Americans are weird (inhibited and ashamed) about sex.

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papercut, why do bare female breasts make you so angry?

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