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I still find it amazing that so many men don't care to find out what turns their partners on; they want to do it the way they want to do it, and want validation for it. Good sex just doesn't work that way.




From what I've been told by the women gracious enough to sleep with me, that's hardly restricted to men who visit paid sex workers. It's apparently the norm for men everywhere. But then again, when you really think about, there are women who are the same way. It may not be as apparent, since men are generally easier to please, but I've known more than one woman who had one position she liked, didn't do oral, only did it with the lights off, etc etc, with no attempt to find out whether I any of this stuff was an issue for my enjoyment or whether, indeed, her management style itself was a problem. If the insight gleaned from these episodes is that "people are generally selfish shits," well... I think that's been well established. And hardly unique to their sexual behavior.
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