i like ben. he seems pretty benign. maybe there is some reason i am unaware of that he is unpopular. if someone wants to show me an occasion where he has behaved sillily, then i would happily reconsider. but he seems okay to me. i think this place could use a few more dumb nice guys, honestly. a few less smart assholes. or, more to the point, a few less people
acting the part of the smart asshole.
and ethebody is one of my favorites.

though he probably does need boundaries.