Nope, you have to be selfish at times but it is always nice to have people around you who care. While I don't know you really, I do care. I'm just like that. Wish I could give you a hug when you need it or something. Like I said, don't know how I'd react if it was that close to me in a girlfriend but I hope I'd at least be respectful.

Its funny, with my uncle I noticed he had been hoarse the last few family events but my dad didn't notice and not sure if anyone else did. Then when he told us he was diagnosed it made sense to me. He got good treatment from very good doctors in NYC. Unfortunately his hospitality wasn't so great at one point with the family he was staying with. Lets just say, everyone has some crazy people in their family. He stayed with em. I think last weekend he had the energy to drive his car so he drove from Palm Springs to LA for some legal stuff on his Woodland Hills home he's selling - prob also drove because he could and it felt good to do it!