I think some of you are missing the point. The Marine Corp is just looking to avoide the controversy by asking them not to come. If they allowed Jenna and Tito to go it would become a media event that they would have to address. The purpose of the Marine Corp Ball is to honor the Marines and those that lost their lives. They don't want to have to answer questions about some porn chick.

Jenna and Tito probably would have been classy, signed a few autographs and took a few photos. But the shitstorm that would be stirred up by overly conservative windbags wouldn't have been worth the grief.

So why bother letting them go?