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I'm going to put this simply. Please answer it honestly and sincerely and seriously. You are the father or brother of a young woman who you find out from third parties has been performing in pornography of the most vile kind the details of which you are either made aware of through word of mouth or you see or hear snippets. The gagging, the verbal abuse, the fish hooking, donkey punching, gangbang bukkake, running mascara, inhuman noises, the ridicule, and stuff like having and erect penis shoved into her mouth in such a way as to deliberatly balloon out her cheek and deform her face grotesquely. Stuff like that. The flash & whir of media devices. You know. This is your close female kin, whom you are hardwired in your lizard brain to protect. How might you react emotionally and physically, do you think?





Get in contact with her immediately, confront her on it, hope she breaks down and admits it and shows sorrow and remorse for the shame it has put on the family, try to find a solution that makes sense to her to leave it, if she does then spend the rest of my life trying to convince myself that she never did those acts but it always being at the front of my mind and probably popping up as soon as theres a happy moment in our family (Christmas lunches with the family, birthdays, weddings,etc) or if she says she leaves but goes back then cutting her out of my life and moving on like she never existed. Im not a hypocrite. If either of my daughters does it, thats probably how id handle it.
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