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I used to frequent a popular swing spot in the bay area(and elsewhere) and there were at times hundreds of people there and maybe 10 that were in any kind of shape.



I suspect you are talking about the Power Exchange. That place is where the dregs of Bay Area swinging society go. The Bay Area has several far better clubs and house/hotel parties for swingers.

In response to the original post, I have met adult talent at swingers parties in the bay area and vegas. They are usually married and older and don't go to established swing clubs. They usually participate in house and hotel parties where you'll usually find the same core circle of swingers time after time.
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