I truly feel sorry for that kid. Isn't that something you would want to keep between you and your daughter, if you even find it necessary to tell her where she came from at all? I really think the kid could have done without knowing how she came into this crazy, mixed-up world her mother brought her into. Could you imagine what the kids at school would have treated her like if they knew this(which they probably did), especially during the Jr.High/Middle School years(quite possibly the most HELLISH years of school for those who are different)? I really have sympathy for this girl.