WOW! I didnt expect so many responses. To answer one question - YES i'm real.....that seems like a kind of strange question but I guess maybe you get fakes on here or something. If you read my info on AFF then you would have seen that I have been on there for a year now and made some great freinds so that should tell you im a real person.
Anywho - thanks for all the links, etc. I am going to start checking those out now.