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#189928 - 09/03/06 12:09 PM
Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.com
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Chronic Masturbator
Registered: 07/30/06
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taken from http://www.XXXchurch.com: August 31, 2006 Quote:
The Trinity Project One of the hardest things we deal with is dealing with people who have been affected by the porn industry. We have been working with a gal named Trinity (Michelle) for over a year now. We met Michelle while she was dating a guy named Josh. Josh told us about his girlfriend and his own struggles with pornography and his prior work in the porn industry. Michelle began prostitution outside of Las Vegas and during this time also got married to Josh. We tried to help the both of them but had no luck for a few months.
A few moths into our relationship we received a call from both of them asking for help and Michelle expressed a true desire to leave. We initialy raised about 16k dollars to help with her immediate needs. We moved them from Las Vegas to Indiana and paid off their bills, paid for schooling, bought a car for Michelle, paid for uniforms, food, and tried to help with all her needs.
Our friend Shelley Lubben got them connected with a counselor in the area and a great church. Over the last year we have remained in contact with them, prayed for them and tried to push Josh especially to step up and start providing a future for his new family. This has been a learning process for everyone involved.
In June we received a phone call at midnight from Michelle. She called crying. She said her home was not a safe place, she was scared for her safety and her daughter's safety and she was leaving Josh. She was also devastated at the fact that her husband was into porn again. She wanted plane tickets back to Vegas to live with her mom. We bought them and flew her and her daughter out that next morning.
Once in Vegas, she agreed to meet with Mike and get connected with some great friends at Central Church in Vegas. We talked through child care issues, job, and a lot of options to make this work now that she would be near people that could help her.
Within a few days she gave up on this hope and wanted to fly back to Indiana. She asked us for money to buy those tickets and this is the first time in a year we have said no. We did not tell her to divorce Josh. We told her to give Vegas a chance and at least meet with Mike and some others.
Josh's mom bought her plane tickets and flew her home back to Josh.
Since then Josh has done nothing to bash the ministry and talk about how bad we have treated him. We have been pretty direct and strong with Josh. Encouraging him to stop with porn and be a man and take some responsibility. He took over complete control on the Trinity Blog that we had set up for Trinity and started posting things on there that did not come from Michelle or any of us here at XXXchurch. We asked him to stop, he did not and he locked us out of control of the blog. We took down the link to the blog and have still asked him to stop posting things since it is not his blog.
Michelle finally posted today.She said this:
I thought It was about time I make one and only one more post on my behalf of all this nonsense because that is exactly what it is all nonsense..we have all had alot of disagreements and because of course they are the ones out to be nice guys they will be right regardless well I wish I would of never fell for that crap because now my life is more screwed up than ever before...all this money was raised to help me start a new life a better one everyone kept saying but I went along with it and it turns out every time I think maybe I shouldn't it turns out I shouldn't have I could of left porn and everything else without them and been in the same place I am in now so what was the point well actually I would of probally been better off..it has done nothing but cause me to owe out alot of money and cant seem to get caught up it has me in a place I have no one or anything and it has cost me my marriage and I am sick to death of all this being put on my husband like it is all his fault it is about time everyone be held accountable for what they have caused the only good thing that has came out of any of this is my daughter is now in a school where she can get the help and tutoring she needs for her speech so that next year she will be caught up to where she needs to be but that is it..I think thats these guys idea of the project was a good idea but they have went about it all wrong and hope no other girl gets caught up in it.you know that what bothers me is xxxchurch number one thing they work for is to help people with there porn addiction...well we all know my husband has a big problem with it and how have they helped him they told him in a email to grow and just quit looking at it oh yeah and that he was a complete idiot exact words yeah that is really helping someone but no they seem to what to make all this about fighting with him and making it his fault that they couldn't do what they sought out to do. there idea to help me is go to church now yeah I should probally go to church but in all reality that isn't fixing my problems now with money a place to live or the therapist I need now that I have went through all this. my husband is now completely done with the church and believing in anything that he has believed most of his life but then again he seems to be pretty much done with anyone involved in this situation including me he has stopped trying with us because the trying and work we both have been doing seems to get cut off every turn we make so that is how this has all helped but I think that is about it I just wanted my thoughts heard oh and I really hope people aren't spending the money on the video above or any other money for the trinity project because there is no trinity project and the money is just going to fill a pocket that doesn't need any help.
There is a Trinity Project and some great things are happening. We have just hired Laci to work in Los Angeles heading up this project. She has started some great relationships with girls in the industry and we are excited about what might happen. We can not fix everyone's problems, we can help with a few things when people are ready. We can not miraculously change your life, only God can do that. The idea of this project from the start was to help people out of porn. We will continue with this mission and ask people that support this cause not to see this as a failure. We don't know what God is doing or will do. We are excited about what lies ahead and the trust that we are building with people in the industry. Our good friend Shelley Lubben continues to work on these things as well. God is opening up some big doors.
One thing we do realize is that we need a place for these girls to go to when they decide to leave. Shelley and X3 are already starting to put together some ideas that I think could really make a transition out of porn a lot smoother then it was for Michelle.
Please continue to pray for Michelle and Josh. Pray for their marriage, the new baby, and that they would be open to allowing God to have control of their lives. We do not see that this is over by any means with them. Right now it is just a little rocky and feel that God is capable of bringing this thing full circle. We do have a few thousand dollars sitting in the Trinity Project fund that we plan to use on other girls in the industry as needed. We will let all of you know of more needs that come up as they develop with others in the industry.
The reason why we post this is so it is out in the open and everyone can see what is happening.
Not really much I have to say on the matter, but just posting it so you guys can say what you must because I seen an old discussion on this topic from a while back. Fire Away!
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#189929 - 09/03/06 04:48 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 06/30/04
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Is 'Laci' from Los Angeles 'Lacie Heart' or an entirely different person?
The whole situation was a clusterfuck from the start.
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#189932 - 09/03/06 05:15 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.com
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Gay For Pay
Registered: 05/03/03
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Loc: Warsaw, Poland
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They blew a lot of cash trying to save that lost soul. They should have shot a Donkey Punch sequal with biblical undertones instead. Whatever. I guess you can take the hooker out of town, but you can't take the hooker out of the hooker.... or something...
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#189936 - 09/04/06 01:38 AM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Bukkake Boy
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Why did they have to buy her a car? She was hooking at the Nevada brothels, she should have already had a decent car.
The worst thing is that she's pregnant again and they are applying for welfare. Her 'husband' works at Home Depot. Loser.
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#189937 - 09/04/06 08:24 AM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Demon Spawn
Registered: 07/07/04
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Her 'husband' works at Home Depot. Loser.
Compared to you or a successful person?
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#189939 - 09/04/06 10:15 AM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/20/05
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Why waste your time trying to fix a lost cause
It's called the better part of human nature, explore it sometime.
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Why did they have to buy her a car? She was hooking at the Nevada brothels, she should have already had a decent car.
You don't suppose "ex pornstar and current hooker" looks good on a loan application, do you? I guess it's better than "emotionally unstable boozehound porn blogger."
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The worst thing is that she's pregnant again and they are applying for welfare. Her 'husband' works at Home Depot. Loser.
So they should just be destitute and live on the street. You dolt, I subsidize welfare, probably much more than you do. It exists for people in need. You may need it someday, may I take potshots at you when that day comes?
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#189941 - 09/04/06 11:35 AM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.com
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 12/01/03
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Loc: california
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Everyone is getting the parts they want you to know int he next week I will be posting all emails and putting the truth out there...these people are looney they didnt do alot of things they have said they are doing but its all good...and anbother point it isnt welfare it is pregnancy medicaid thats far from welfare if you ask me but if I needed it I have worked hard enough in my life that I would go and get it if I needed it but anywayz will end it there the whole story will be up by the end of this week that is why they posted beause I told them I was lettign the truth be known so they thought they would beat me to the punch
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#189942 - 09/04/06 11:44 AM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 10/27/05
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I will be posting all emails and putting the truth out there...
Can you post some nudes too while you are at it?
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#189943 - 09/04/06 11:50 AM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 12/01/03
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Loc: california
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probably not sorry hun but maybe one day
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#189944 - 09/04/06 12:06 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 12/01/03
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and yes I do believe it is lacie Heart but I will find out for sure and let you know
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#189945 - 09/04/06 02:16 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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ADT regular
Registered: 04/23/03
Posts: 16
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Why waste your time trying to fix a lost cause
It's called the better part of human nature, explore it sometime.
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Why did they have to buy her a car? She was hooking at the Nevada brothels, she should have already had a decent car.
You don't suppose "ex pornstar and current hooker" looks good on a loan application, do you? I guess it's better than "emotionally unstable boozehound porn blogger."
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The worst thing is that she's pregnant again and they are applying for welfare. Her 'husband' works at Home Depot. Loser.
So they should just be destitute and live on the street. You dolt, I subsidize welfare, probably much more than you do. It exists for people in need. You may need it someday, may I take potshots at you when that day comes?
nice to see someone here has some sense of humanity.
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#189946 - 09/04/06 02:21 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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ADT regular
Registered: 04/23/03
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everyone has an agenda. certainly the XXX church guys have one and so do you. sometimes people's agendas find synergy. sometimes they don't. sometimes they begin with good intentions and sometimes they end otherwise. if you received help from them, say thanks and get on with your life. if they didn't do all they said they'd do, oh well, that's life. they owed you nothing and still owe you nothing.
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#189947 - 09/04/06 02:37 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 9184
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they owed you nothing and still owe you nothing.
I'd guess that they asked for things that are well outside a typical porn whore's mental wheelhouse (faith, abstemiousness, direction), but let 'em air it out, everyone will benefit.
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#189948 - 09/04/06 02:57 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 12/01/03
Posts: 159
Loc: california
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yep ur very right and thats what I am tryin to do but yet they just wanna keep it going and going because they dont want me talking to anyone because they say they have other girls they are working with and I shouldnt jeopordize that HA I hope noone else is as stupid as I was...
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#189950 - 09/04/06 06:39 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 06/30/04
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Its sad if 'Laci' is 'Lacie Heart'. She had a contract with Vivid and the potential to make plenty of $$$ dancing and doing appearances, but left the industry. She's flushing a huge amount of $$ down the toilet and the XXX Church is just a bunch of rightwingers trying to make money off the 'evil porn people'.
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#189951 - 09/04/06 07:10 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 08/26/03
Posts: 8160
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#189952 - 09/04/06 07:45 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 9184
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She's flushing a huge amount of $$ down the toilet and the XXX Church is just a bunch of rightwingers trying to make money off the 'evil porn people'.
Wait, they collect money from others, and give it to whores who want out of the biz but don't have the means, how are do they, "make money off the 'evil porn people?'" As to blowing the caysh, Trinity did you trade in the car for meth? I think TJ can answer this better than your worthless ass.
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#189953 - 09/04/06 07:56 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 12/01/03
Posts: 159
Loc: california
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my husband thinks it may not be the lacie heart girl but I am researching it also to the meth joke anyone in the industry or any of the fans that I have met with know I am not a drug whore I did my partying as a teenager and it ended there I havent touchs a drugg in quite a few years and have no need to...also the money people donated it all doesnt go to the girls....their a non profit organization but one of them makes 80000 a year so does that answer
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#189955 - 09/04/06 08:10 PM
Re: Update on the Trinity Project from XXXchurch.c
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/20/05
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also the money people donated it all doesnt go to the girls....their a non profit organization but one of them makes 80000 a year so does that answer
Yeah, my parish priest makes $0 per year yet our "flock" seems to have enabled him to know some of the best restaurants in Scottsdale. It's part of the bargain. Also, the mixture of words and punctuation will increase your credibility tenfold, please?
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They make money off of them say the same way any charity does: skimming money off of donations. Pay yourself a fat salary, with perks, off of the donations. That's how Pat Robertson got rich.
What ever happened to Smelly Monkey turning your head into a peanut bowl?
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