your right I am not going to make any decisions till I get back from my next trip! The disgust is from the hackers, and people who trade passwords! As far as the porn egos go,I have been really lucky to have met only real cool people everyone has been so nice to me. (yes I am that new)hes not my webmaster though I do it all myself. but he owns the server. we were never romantically involved (as a side note)the thing is when the site started I was just a bondage chick so that's the bulk of the site, but I lost a lot of my bondage fans when I started doing hard core.I lost 80% of my members.I need to find a way to transition the site. I am working on a store to carry all the movies I am in and screen worn clothes etc. hopefully that will do ok. we shall see. I am sure I am rambling, sorry I am undermedicated! Happy St patty day!