here's an idea: put the website on the back burner until after you go out to cali and do some more flicks, by then you'll probably have more dough. Then you can plan your prospects if you want to stay in porn to build a bigger fanbase who may want to pay for your site. there's tons of babes nobody knows with pointless sites trying to be the next Danni Ashe, ya dig me? if you decide to split just give him a blowjob goodbye and find a webmaster out west or wherever.
p.s. I don't think the disgust with humanity ever goes away and you may find yourself even more disgusted with humanity when dealing with the egos in porn....