That's why I'd suggest starting with a 'clean slate'.

Girls that are angry usually go until about their mid-30's until they understand why they've been doing what they've been doing. By then, they can't have kids because of the drugs, STD's, and abortions.

People sometimes ask me if I set out to meet my wife at such a young age. I must confess, I did. I had dated strippers, hot chicks, and other nutcases before I met her, all with the same result...they all wanted to beat me down.

I didn't particularly like being beaten down, cheated on, and lied to. It made those girls feel good to do that, but it made me miserable.

So, I upset the applecart, intentionally.

I met a girl who hadn't been raped, molested, or had consensual incest...(that does happen a lot, ya know).

The reason why America enacted laws against minors having sex with adults was to guard against older men getting young girls pregnant, making them drop out of school, and denying them educations. I refused to conform to this stereotype. My wife finished high school with a gpa of 3.5 and went to college. We have also intentionally put off having a child until she's turned 30.

She's never done addictive drugs, and neither have I.

That's probably another piece of advice I'd give Scott.

Stop doing addictive drugs. And if you use pot more than twice a month, I'd say that's an addictive drug, too.

How many 'Behind the Musics' do people need to understand where coke, speed and heroin lead? Angry girls like to think they're immortal.

I tried the Scott Fayner way of doing things. It didn't work.

I, like most of you, love hot chicks.

It's just that I figured this out a long, long time ago...

...Trying to fix a girl that's broken is much harder to do than nurturing one who isn't.

After our marriage went into the fifth year, people stopped calling me names. Kinda like Chris Robinson and Kate Hudson.

Since then, those who called me those terrible things have all gotten divorced, or broke up.

Sometimes upsetting the applecart, and going against the grain, yields the best results.

However, when dating a young girl, one's intentions must be pure. Mine were. We were in love, are still in love, and we support each other, and help each other grow.

The only kind of growth a porn 'star' will give you is an inflated debt number on your maxxed out credit cards.

Food for thought.

The Outsider