It's not gay enough because very clear delineations are required in such circumstances. Gray areas in this context are not tolerable. Once these lines begin to be blurred then a point of no return is reached and that instatiable throb in all our beastly hearts will engulf the tenous world we've constructed for ourselves like a China Syndrom of blood gushing forth from the torn sphincter of an asshole that didn't ever realize it could be such a way.