insults, criticism... whatever it is... pointing the truth whether its obvious or not. Taken negatively. Making one sad. Well it doesn't make you a bad person and it doesn't make everything else about you bad. There are good and bad things that come with everyone.

Example... bad Padover has big nose, big mouth and doesn't shut up sometimes. WHATEVER!!!

good Padover... overly giving, understanding and tend to cut my nails too damn short for others that mean a lot to me. Family oriented blah blah blah

Good things come with bad things. Bad things come with good things. I like it that way. It's reality.

Or maybe I just like the pain that comes with reality more LOL