kate--you'll never live to see your utopia realized.

because instead of addressing the childhood-trauma you experienced and repressed you're on a mission to pretend your mother used to fall asleep in your bed naked and intoxicated never happened and that it's "GGGREEAT!" to be the way you are.

as a bisexual man, i'd work on coming to grips with the physical/sexual/emotional abuse you suffered at some age instead of trying to make the world bisexual. there's an elevated chance you're suffering from some degree of mood or affective disorder than those who don't switch-hit. spend your porn budget on some therapty and medication and i bet your life will improve.