I'm trying to understand what you people are trying to say in this thread.
First off, from my point of view, yes Dp's border on gay. They aren't gay as long as each cock is in a different hole.
The only way I see these as degrading is if it's a white chick and two black dicks. (it's still a social taboo in our society)

As for bukkake's being in a room full of naked guys you don't know masterbating to pop off; didn't most of you guys do this a kid? I don't know if this is quite gay or just natural curiousity to compare.
The action of bukkake I think is highly degrading, when the girls are covered in cum. The "Cumbong" or other devises for swallowing theses loads is less degrading I think and just plain .

As for throat fucking I think that's where the true degration is, think about it, slobber and snot all over your face and a cock in your throat trying to make you gag.

As for your lesbian plan Outsider, it's unrealistic, like Rob said if there is no dick in the how can you put yourself in the plot.
I do have to agree with what was said about there being more domination and that women do like to be dominated. Women throughout time have picked men based on their dominance and leadership abilities. That's why nice guys finish last. Women who pick men who are weak are just after their money and it will be a short term relationship. Even when the women is dominate in society she wants to come home and be put in her place in the bedroom.

If you shave your chest(or other areas) you are already gay.
The guys in porn are mostly gay because who else could hold out for as long as needed with a hot chick besides a guy who would rather be fucking another guy.
Sorry if I have rambled, my head is not attached to my body right now.