Okay outsider i will do my best to explain this as quickly as i can. I have said this before, i believe each man is allowed to have sex upto 9 times a man or men through out his life BEFORE he is gay. If you have sex 10 or more times with a man or men then you become gay. Thats not 10 different men, thats a sexual act 10 times or more, so if you have sex with the same man 7 times like i did with fayner, thats counted as 7 times, you have 2 more sexual acts with men left on your heterosexual card. it makes sense and i have toured colleges around the nation with this argument and have converted many a smart minds with this argument.