malice, you're as amused by the fucking freaks some fans are, i sympathize with her calculation not to tell them---give them a paper-clip and they can find a way to make it really-creepy. maged excepted, it's probably not desirable to disclose everything about your life. here's where i come back to your page on the name thing-


"kami" is a stage name. it's not even "kami andrews". it's going to be the movies not posting at xpt that the name will be associated with in the future. her kid will find the movies before he finds her posts.

her adt posting isn't much less-salacious or less likely to get noticed by people in the industry. gene could just as easily gleaned a post from there this week, it'll same be interesting to see whether she keeps posting there in the same fashion.