You need to come back in a 4th incarnation:

JamesNBostonNMarriedNow
NOTJamesNBoston
BeGoneSoonSteph
JamesnIV
Foursomebody

What sucks is that they are so delayed in deactivating people. A week after you do something bad, and think you are in the clear - BAM! Deactivated. What happened to punishment being swift and certain? I am at a loss.