Thats it, i have said it before, i am NOT gay. It was just a fayner thing, i considered him a soulmate more of a man to man relationship. I haven't slept with any other men since fayner and doubt i ever will. I don't even know why i mentioned it to begin with. Its over now and the sexual part of the relationship ended up destroying our friendship. Thats all i am going to say on the matter from now on.