Again, who's to say the girl you pick up in a bar doesn't have a history where she dated a guy with a horsecock who could go for hours? Chances are, even if you're above average, some of your lovers have had bigger. So you have to be better. And I doubt the way porn is filmed - lighting, changing in positions, awkward scenarios - that the sex is always as great as it seems. Remember, some of it is ACTING. I had a fling with one adult actress whom I know did one of the biggest cocks in the business...she was still VERY tight and she was nothing in bed like she was in the movies...which was actually nice. Insecurity prevents us from doing a lot of things we should. And before you say, yeah, well why not ask out Kelly...cause I'm 90 percent sure she's taken. If I knew she was single, I'd try in a minute, hoss, rejection or no.