I dated two black women. Neither would let you touch her hair for fear of messing it!! They would get VERY PISSED! btw, They both also believed that if you wanted "freaky sex" you should date a white girl. Sisters don't do "freaky sex", they said.
The one I dated in 1997 actually bit me during a bj when I gently pushed on her head. She completely freaked!!
I broke it off with her soon after though this wasn't the only reason. I talked to her last year. She STILL hates me for dumping her. She was a virgin Jehovah Witness convert and believes I ruined her.