I have a problem and i would like to see what the board thinks of it, i would like to see your views on the matter. I admit, i did have a brief fling with scott fayner but i don't consider myself gay. I think men are allowed to sleep with men under 10 times in a life time to be considered straight, as long as you keep it under double digits you are straight. For example fayner and i did the deed 7 times in our brief relationship, so i have 2 more sexual encounters that i can have in the rest of my life with other men to still be considered straight. Does this make sense??.